Confused about Detaching Part 2

[Pudmuddle]

Angela I am SO sorry to hear about this. It breaks my heart as much as it did for my own sitch.

Cat's advice is spot on and you should NOT make ANY decisions right now on what to do as you will be going from one emotion to the next in a matter of minutes, hours. Don't do anything that you might regret later.

Remember right now your children need stability. So for you to pack them all up or for you to leave would crush their little worlds. Their home is what they know and to change that would make them feel awful.

You are fortunate that you have been doing db before you found out this awful truth, so remember the things you have learned. It's very hard to practice them with such extreme emotion but always think of this before you do anything.

Your H is saying everything that the MLC boards talk about, don't let him manipulate you with any of them. Don't react. Let him solve the mess he has created, you cannot.

I'm so sorry Ang.