Confused about Detaching Part 2

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Angela,

I am so sorry that you have learned this information.

I honestly can't say that I am surprised though.

With MLCer's, this is something that is entirely normal.

So is the back and forth, up and down, thinking things are improving and then BLAM, it's a mess again.

She may not be talking to him right now, but that doesn't mean that won't change.

That is something I would like you to understand.

And prepare yourself emotionally for.

Something I have learned in this life is that all answers come to us when we need them. And when we are ready to handle them.

I don't think you are in a place right now to make a decision to end your M.

You are hurt. You are angry. You are scared.

That is not a place to make such a huge decision from.

I know you don't think you can forgive right now. I know you don't think you can trust right now.

I also know you feel like you need to act in some way...

Sometimes, being still, is the best course of action...

We are here and I encourage you to post, vent, let it out, and do something special for yourself today...

A fancy cup of coffee, nails, something...

This is just the beginning...I promise