GM - should I not have addressed this? It was so bad in their apartment that I had to lay on the ground, next to the open porch door, in order to breathe at night. In my book, the only answer was to point it out and suggest solutions, such as that he should wear an adult diaper (which he doesn't seem to do). I finally don't care how he addresses it, but wanted to make him aware of the problem and its effects on others. The point was not to hurt or embarrass, but to help.


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M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.