So....for now, baby steps, don't spook the squirrel, keep up the PMA/GAL activity and go have a nice drive on Saturday?
Exactly I know it's hard playing this waiting game. My H still asks me to record things so we can watch them together, but at this moment in time I feel like deleting the ones I've already watched and H hasn't seen yet! Next time she says we need to talk about this, blah blah etc. listen to what she has to say. However much you feel it would hurt you, it's another hurdle you have to get over when you feel ready to take it. I hear what you're saying about moving on with flirty waitresses, although for me it's not flirty waitresses, lol. Although I'm not ready for another relationship at the mo, I wonder how long I will be able to wait around for him. Then again, you know what my feelings are towards him at the mo! You've come a long way with your W and as I said you feel that you're stuck in limbo at the mo. Something will happen one day that will bring you closer just a little bit more When your W said she won't go to MC with you because she doesn't like talking to strangers about your sitch, that is exactly what my H said. Maybe when she comes round and wants to start again, she may feel more interested in going to MC. You can piece without MC, but I feel it will be very difficult. I know this as I didn't go to MC the first time round and I don't think that all our issues were resolved.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
