It hurts to find out what's going on, but I believe it's better to know. Especially when you've been wondering/worrying about what was really happening.

As long as there were secrets between you, your M wouldn't have had a chance. So perhaps this is the best thing that could have happened. God's timing doesn't always match ours, but I think everything happens for a reason.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13