Have you had a chance to read the books? I found DR more helpful and easier to read but they are both great resources. It may help you with your confusion on why she is kissing you but won't do anything else, why this will take a while and, most importantly, what you need to do in the meantime.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13