Just read through your last thread. I really liked what you said here, [/quote=jp787] My goal is to get to a point to where I can plan and if it falls apart, then I rool with it instead of getting rolled up in it. [/quote]
I need to adopt more of your attitude, of rolling with the changes, and not letting fear of uncertainty hold me down.
-cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.