When he tells you about him being a failure and he will never stop begin angry, what is your response? Have you tried to agree with him on these statements and see if he change his attitude about himself?
I don't respond anymore. Try agreeing with him?
Like letting him know I also think he's a looser, at least now, and he didn't do as good as he could have, and maybe he would have more money if he actually saved.
I used to in the beginning in my anger...nothing matters and it does me know good to insult someone who can do it better for himself.
He believes I am his forever groupie, it's not worth talking to him, I stay very quiet, do what works stfu works for me.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!