He is definitely very confused and still doesn’t know what he wants. It also seems to me that he is trying to find the way to deal with his anger and resentment, but cannot figure it out. He is stuck in self pity. I wonder how long this could be going on. When he tells you about him being a failure and he will never stop begin angry, what is your response? Have you tried to agree with him on these statements and see if he change his attitude about himself?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
