Ur - Yes!!!! I figured it was either you or Punkin. Nice to know that you are still here.
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First of all, why are you looking at her FB? No reason at all for you to be doing that. It doesnt serve you well, right?
Right, but I wasn't looking. I couldn't look if I wanted to because she blocked me long ago. I heard S22 and S18 talking about it.
You're right. I shouldn't hold on and I didn't think I was. I just noticed the other day that yes, I am still "bothered" by her actions. Although, I don't let it get to me like it used to.
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People may treat you differently initially, but, if you let them get to know the real you, that will stop.
I'm not so sure about that. Some people do and some people don't. I think it depends on the person. Hell, even my own brother treats me differently and has even gone so far as to call me by my "radio name" if he is trying to impress somebody. It is sickening really.
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You'll drop that anger when you're ready. But you've heard that before. We challenge you because we know you need to keep moving. Finding something different - people, places, etc is a great idea.
Yes, I will AJ and I thought that I had, but I guess not. Something different? Hahaha. If my boys weren't here, I would have probably moved as far away as I could get long ago. I've seriously even considered giving up all of my worldy possessions (not that I have much left) and moving to a cave or monestary. (sp?)
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No, some of us are still here. But when we've been encouraging, nigh on begging you to stop worrying about XW and move on for SO long, well.....
Drew, I was simply venting. I'm sure I'm not the only one that is still a little angry. And no, I'm not "worrying" about her. I was just bothered by a few things is all.
You said it yourself - "everyone in their own time."
I'm getting there.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
