Trying to have a good night, but had brief cry after realizing that I didn't have anyone to help me move furniture (that my H wants) to the garage. So I had to ask a stranger to help move a few pieces of furniture tomorrow if possible. The H stops by at 10 am on Saturday and I just don't want him in the house but he is asking me to pay half the mortgage to be FAIR (??) because he cannot afford to pay his rent and utilities at the apartment and still pay the full mortgage.
I still very much want him to change his mind. However, he won't because he is resolved and wants me to get it - that we ARE getting divorced.
I guess he is not in MLC if he seems so confident and sure of his actions?
I am just trying to live day to day without falling apart. I am letting him get his things from the garage based on the list he provided me.
Thoughts?
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years
So I had to ask a stranger to help move a few pieces of furniture tomorrow if possible. The H stops by at 10 am on Saturday and I just don't want him in the house but he is asking me to pay half the mortgage to be FAIR (??) because he cannot afford to pay his rent and utilities at the apartment and still pay the full mortgage.