It stinks and none of it seems fair. I'm glad you got the computers to the tech guy.
They don't think about the feelings of others. They just don't. It's all about them. Your H is only thinking about himself right now and how to protect himself. Those photos were probably the last thing on his mind.
Maybe, once they are retrieved, download the photos onto a disk and keep ore of the laptops away from your H.
This may be the most challenging time in your life. If you read my situation, you will see that I often give into the impulses and react to my H. Don't do what I do.
Look what you did today. You handled it!! YOu got the computer's to a tech and you vented here.
MLC-ers seem to throw us little surprise parties here and there, full of fun things to deal with!! You will learn to pick yourself up, take care of business and get on with living your life.
Take good care of yourself and wait to see what the techs say. Don't blow or make any decisions. Give yourself some time to calm down.
Much Love,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson