OK, DB Forum peeps. Need advice on the dreaded R talk. Might be that time now. Hopefully some of you can share your experiences and I can get this right the first time through...
The really short story:"If you want to talk about anything let me know."
The longer version:"I don't really want to get into things you made clear you don't want to talk about but..." So, what happened was I decided to shop for phones and when I logged in I was prompted to update my email. What I didn't know was that it would text W at 5am about an email change on the account. So, she saw where a while back I'd nicknamed a certain number "handyman" and my number "me."
The details: The good thing is, she didn't flip out about it. She didn't even suggest we separate the phone accounts like she wanted to do way back. She also told me that for the record, she doesn't snoop at who texts me (weird to me she worded it that way instead of "who I text" but....). A tad bit amusing, too given past snooping on her part. But, fair enough. And the really good thing is I didn't snoop myself. I haven't since back when I added that nickname to the number on the phone site.
She also said she wanted to know if I want to go somewhere on Sat. She mentioned a specific place (I'm trying to be a little more discreet about details these days). It was the same general place we went for the disastrous drive the day before her B-day and BD day. Maybe I'll suggest a similar, but different place....
What I said: I apologized for the address book nickname on cellphone site but didn't mention OM. Said it was just me having fun and didn't know it would show up outside my profile. I said a drive would be nice. Most importantly, I said "Have to talk, just not easy. Needed to before and that's why we're here again. "
