The caged beast craving freedom, I guess. She has always been kind of wild, and reminds me of Anna Karenina.

Yes, it was difficult each time. It seemed like the price to pay for staying together, and yes, it is unusual.

Am applying your advice - thanks again - found it useful to think what I would do if she didn't exist? Okay, then do just that! L

M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.