Reflecting back, this is the third time my W needs space. 1. during our courtship, she moved out to her own apartment, leaving the rented house we were roommates in. I finally ended up moving in with her at the apartment. 2. in the early years of our marriage, she rented a small room in another part of town, and would invite me over sometimes. It was actually kind of romantic to do this. 3. now this.
Wow! Did you not see it as being very unusual?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
