5. Avoid jumping in to correct, defend and/or explain yourself. Just listen!
These are the toughest for me! When we went to lunch H shared and I had to reeeeeally concentrate...this is an area of which I have a major challenge.
Thanks for stopping by my thread. I'm keeping tabs on your situation. <3
That is where I have a lot of learning to do as well! I am so used to defending my point, and I think that has really hurt my marriage. I think it is the reason for him closing himself off to me. Pretty hard to feel connected to someone when you can't even talk to them! Hopefully I can improve how I communicate with him and that he will eventually feel he can come to me to talk about things.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
