Arg! Still haven't had 'our talk' yet. I feel the longer we go without talking the more nervous I am getting. I think mainly I will let him take the lead of the conversation and do a lot of listening and validating. My DB coach has also given me some great suggestions on what to say or do if certain things happen in our talk. She has said that for the most part let him do the talking.

After he is done expressing his concerns I have a few points that I want to bring up as well. My coach suggested I could phrase it as that I have come up with some solutions to some of the problems we are having...and express my concern and the ideas I have come up with for solutions.

H sprained his ankle pretty bad last night as his volleyball.. it looked awful. I am hoping that won't push our talk back even more... I am getting so nervous!!! Feels like I am in limbo again.. waiting for this talk to happen!!!! ahhhhhhh

I feel like everything is riding on this talk and how it goes. The reason I am so worried is that communication is not one of our strong suits. We haven't done it so well in the past, hopefully we change that as that is one of the areas we need to work on! I am hoping this is a starting point for us to move forward.

peace
-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.