Is this cake eating? 15

[wishing, hoping]

Honestly, NLW, neither OW nor your X care about anyone else's feelings, especially not yours. They are looking to get your goat. They want a reaction. They are in their own little world. So no, they don't care.

You should have seen the OW in my sitch hanging onto H walking to D's soccer game last weekend. Was she ever putting on a show. That's what they do.

You are sensitive to it, yes, but this man was your husband. The one you thought would never do this to you. Of course it hurts. Of course it's terrible and anyone who says you should not be bothered by it needs to walk a mile in your shoes.

But it isn't real. It's all for show. It doesn't make you feel any better, but it's an act. An emotional ploy. Try to shake it off and see it for what it really is.

Vent away.

WH