"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

[Pudmuddle]

Thanks cat. I agree with working on myself first. I have a gift from H that he is removing himself from M right now, and is giving me time to work on myself. He is not nasty, nor has he been demanding about moving anything forward.

I am ready for directness, seriously.

Allalone, since May I have lost 30 pounds by getting my head on straight, in this area at least, lol. I have been seeing a holistic nutritionist who believes and promotes the value of me, not just eating right and being healthy. I have already gotten the haircut/color and new, hot clothes. So I no longer 'feel fat' even though I still have maybe 30 more to lose. And this time I am doing it for me, not to attract my H, even though that would be a bonus, but simply for me, to be the best me. Thank you for the words of encouragement on being good to me.