That was a great edit Mr. Cas.
You have awesome help in here K!

I know you wanted to see her I person so she could "see" the changes, but the way you handle communicating with her in matters like this will allow her to "see" them just as well.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope