I have to tell you, things over here can get pretty direct, very quickly...

It isn't personal...

I have to agree with Mach about figuring out who you are and what you want before worrying too much about the marriage outcome.

It will reconcile or it won't. How you are at that point, and whether things "stick" depends on the work you do now.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox