Thanks CP & Job! I'm not making any moves right now, but I do feel that I've been wavering a bit. After doing some reflection and research, my DB plan at the moment is stand by my original plan that if W wants this she should get the ball in motion, but I'm will work with her amicably once she does that. I certainly don't want to pressure W into being M to me! I just don't understand why she's taking so long to do anything if that's why she wants? On top of that we're getting along pretty well lately so I'm definitely enjoying the peace. Part of me wonders if that's b/c she thinks I'm onboard for getting D and I don't want to ask. Ugh.
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"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
