Glad you've decided to get off the roller coaster and concentrate on you fully. I believe in almost every situation it's what's best no matter how hard and how wrong it feels at times.

Originally Posted By: JonF
W texted me, and said, "I still don't know what to say (about divorce). As usual. You'll probably be mad."

I just didn't respond; probably room for validation or exploring feelings, but I honestly don't trust myself to get dragged into something.
Good job not responding, especially if you don't trust yourself. It's time for her to figure out her stuff on her own and you to do the same. She knows where you stand and you'll know if/ when she's committed to working on things. Until then just do your thing. Stay your course and don't get back on the ride.


Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are

Turn your trials into your testimonies

Don't believe everything you think

Expectations are resentments waiting to happen