WAW served me, 2 weeks in, looking for pointers

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Thanks for the feedback M,M, jp and ur,

I only put down the amounts, because I have managed all payments for the last 3+ years. I don't even know if she has an idea of what goes out monthly. I thought that was being thoughtful, but I can see how writing it is controlling. I also see it as an opportunity to validate her opinion on how to divide things up.

I think it is important to divide up the finances because ultimately that is what will happen. Let's both get used to it now.


So revised email-




Dear W,

I did have a good time with my mother visiting and yes, we bumped into BIL/SIl at the service, it was good seeing them.

Thanks for giving me the time I requested for signing the papers. I will have my attorney send your attorney an answer.

I think we should take steps to divide finances soon. How would you like to accomplish that?

I hope you're doing well also!

H