I think it's really odd you actually finalized your divorce without telling the kids.
It finalized pretty quickly (less than a day) after being in limbo for a really long time.
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When we talked to kids, I simply said, "W has decided to proceed with divorce, and it'll probably be finalized in 6 months or so. Here's what's going to happen, etc, we love you very much."
I wasn't like "W is a witch, and is too selfish to see past her own nastiness".
That's the angle I think is best, but I'm not sure we'll assign blame on who pushed for the D. I don't want to lie and say we agreed to it, though... that it was mutual. I don't think that's beneficial, especially at their ages.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
