I agree w/ MrCas:

Dear W,

I did have a good time with my mother visiting and yes, we bumped into BIL/SIl at the service, it was good seeing them.Thanks for giving me the time I requested for signing the papers. I will have my attorney send your attorney an answer.

I think we should take steps to divide finances by the end of October. How do you feel about that?



(I don't know about bringing up the finances but if its important right now my opinion is to keep it short and as Mr Cas said let her give her opinion)


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope