I just read through some of Cadet's posts...I also saw one called "MLC Signs". It was like someone was watching my H and charting his every move. I guess he's still in it. I don't know why I was naive enough to think he was out of it! Wow, the behavior is so textbook it's not even funny. In some ways it is kind of funny.
I feel a lot better, oddly. Probably because I realize just how universal my "unique and miserable problem" really is.
Realizing that our spouse is likely in MLC can be comforting because we realize that others are experiencing exactly what we are experiencing. But be careful to not fall into the trap of thinking that your spouse's MLC excuses you from making the changes you need to make to you.
Welcome to the boards!!
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
