You are going into panic mode. It is affecting your ability to think clearly here.
None of here are rooting against you. We are trying to help you avoid the mistakes and poor decisions made by others. Learn from other people's pain.
I am going to question the burning desire to meet with your W face to face. IMO, you have this vision that she is going to suddenly realize what a grievous error she is making and have a miraculous change of heart... Real life doesn't happen that way.
Ask any of us how we know. I can tell you how I do.
I call what you are trying to "passive aggressive pursuing". "C'mon, W, I need to meet up with you to discuss XXX" or pass along these documents or have her sign something. Pursuit of any kind is just going to push her further away and the harder you push the faster she is going move.
From my POV... where you are right now is all about winning her back and not about getting you to where you need to be.
I'd say that is a very good assesment and I am freaking out. I'll try to relax.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
