Thanks AS,

As always appreciate your comments, I am in a world now where I know thats all i can do. Deep down concern that the OM is still on the scene but there is absolutely nothing I can do about it.
WAW is away with her friend on a theatre trip this weekend, it was a birthday treat from me on her last birthday in June. I'll probably get a thankyou text, the upside? she wont be with OM this weekend makes me smile a little!

Cheers All

Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13