I can't recall what DB coach said about boundaries because I had a long break between sessions, from Feb. when I first found out about affair until a month ago due to the fact I had to push all thoughts of affair aside and take care of my very sick child for 6 months. I did tell him I expected no contact with OW and I guess he agreed although he admits he txt OW on her birthday. I have no way of knowing if he is or isn't, we only see each other on weekends now, he is working in another city, so it's very stressful and complicated. I have the burden of caring for ill child alone and two siblings also. My child's illness has made me wonder if I even want to be married to someone who hurt me so bad, if I can survive my child being so sick, I can survive anything. Thanks for your help.
