I'm planning on staying n/c until thanksgiving then as you stated on HWA's thread maybe just peek out momentarily. That will be 2 months of n/c unless of course she does a surprise email...Or in my case maybe I should just stay n/c for sometime.
If you contact her on her birthday, holidays, and other special events.....don't you think that becomes very predictable? If you "wait" to contact her Thanksgiving, then she's going to expect to hear from you Christmas. So, what do you gain by making the contact? Another rejection? Why would you expect anything else?
You're going back to a beautiful place to live. I can tell you love it! It can be a new chapter for you and the girls. Leave the past where it belongs....in the past. Think new and better and grab life for all you can get every day.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
