Thanks, Cadet. I have felt like it was MLC but hoping it wasn't! Lol. MLCers are just plain crazy to deal with. Thanks for your input. I truly appreciate it!
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That being said your husband has many control issues. He is able to control you by his words and actions.
Yep. This is something that has been mentioned over on my thread, too. That H has a lot of control over my emotions and actions by what he says and does. And, it's true. I'm just not sure how to stop letting him have so much control over my emotional state. I really want out M to work so I try to change to accommodate his needs...but then, he changes his mind on what those needs are. Patient Man keeps telling me to decide who I want to be and stick with that. I'm working on it. Tough stuff to work out. Lol.
Maybe these are some issues you need to look at for yourself.
They will not shorten his MLC but they may help YOU.
I'm a "thinker"...probably over-think sometimes...but I've been trying to journal and figure out who I am...what I want out of life, etc. The "big" questions. And, I keep getting caught back up in my H and what he needs me to be. I don't want my marriage to be over. I love him. The kids love him. And, I'm comfortable with him. I don't want to start all over again. But, I'm starting to see that I really may have to start all over again, alone. And, that scares the H*** out of me.
And they may not make his MLC longer than it needs to be.
