Wow 2old, I found something that is different about us. For me I am moving back to our house, the area we have lived in for 20 years, my boys, my friends, my pastimes. If the W came back, she would have been coming back to all that, plus her family (sister, mother, father and niece).
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.