DB coach is advising me to keep things light and fun with H and avoid relationship talks until around January mostly because we are dealing with so much in getting our child stable from a serious illness. January because we are supposed to put our house on the market in spring to move for H new job, he is already there and we only see him on weekends due to not wanting to uproot kids in middle of school year (rethinking that one!). Now I am the one wondering if I deserve better, he says he cares for her, and always has. Is his hs sweetheart. Says he loves me though. I am very confused by all this. Thanks so much for responding!
