Can you have a WAS and MLC all combined in one crisis?
My H has been saying the same things over and over again for years, but they are issues (things he says are my fault) he convinced himself were the reason for his unhappiness. He left using the same excuses even though he was depressed and hadn't dealt with childhood issues.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
