Need to Dig Deeper everyday...

[labug]

I think you said enough. Leave it.

[JayMan]

Agreed. Leave it. You stated your case honestly, now let her do the work.

[DigDeeper]

I think you said enough. Leave it.

Agreed. Leave it. You stated your case honestly, now let her do the work.

I just replied ok and leave it as that. Thanks for the advice labug and jonf

[AnotherStander]

It was a good, validating email you sent her. She's obviously not on the same page regarding the M, so don't fall into the trap of constantly reminding her that you're waiting for her. You said it in that email, no need to repeat it, she knows. Just keep showing her a changed you through your actions, maybe some day that'll draw her back. Until then give her time and space and keep working on -you-.

[DigDeeper]

It was a good, validating email you sent her. She's obviously not on the same page regarding the M, so don't fall into the trap of constantly reminding her that you're waiting for her. You said it in that email, no need to repeat it, she knows. Just keep showing her a changed you through your actions, maybe some day that'll draw her back. Until then give her time and space and keep working on -you-.

Thanks for dropping by AS. I'm not too sure whether she will take notice of my changes as she moved out 7 months ago. However I know that harping on this point will only hinder my ways of being a better me.

[DigDeeper]

It's a strange thing. I have no emotions melt down after my W said she will file. I'm not too sure whether I'm soo far fetched down being detached or whether the aftershock will appear soon.

[DigDeeper]

W text to ask for a meet up tomorrow night at 7pm.

I replied that I can't make it as i need to work overtime. I say that I will be bz till mid nov and will let her know once i have free time.

She replied that she will get someone to come to my house to get the mail.

I replied that I understand that she is not comfortable heading over to my house. I will meet her outside to pass her the mail. However she is always welcome by all at my house. However, I am not comfortable having a stranger to come over to my house to get a mail and hope that she understand. I told her i'll let her know once my schedule opens up and wish her have a great weekend and good night.

She replied that She will get a friend of hers to come over (this friend of hers is also an acquaintance of mine but i'm really not comfortable having anyone else to head over to my house to collect the mail.)


Now I'm stuck on whether i should reply her or just text her when i'm free on my schdule?

[JayMan]

Is the mail outside? Do you normally get it and give it to her?

If you want to just set it out, and let a friend pick it up, then I wouldn't argue - pick your battles or risk appearing petty.

[DigDeeper]

The mail is inside the house. We do not have mailbox over here whereby one can pick it up from outside the house.

I do not want to be seemed petty. that is the last impression i want to make. But i can understand why my actions now would seemed to be that way.

[DigDeeper]

I think i will reply my W with the following:

I understand that you want to receive the mail asap. I believe I am free on tuesday night after work to hand you the mail.