I agree with Job, go to the meetup. She goes out, no reason why you cant. And I agree with you, if she asks, not a good idea to lie.

She is saying she doesnt want a marriage with you. So, thats the reason for the meetup. Sometimes a little dose of reality is what's needed.

As far as FB, I am not sure why you feel it is a lot of trouble. You are a smart man, you can do this. smile