"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

[Pudmuddle]

Hi cat04, I really appreciate another perspective, that's kind of what I was looking for as I seem to be so wrapped up in my emotions right now.

From your perspective, what do you think my H is? WAS or MLC? I'd really be curious to know what you think.

Also, what questions did I not answer fully for job? I know I need to dig deeper to discover me and H, that is where I am getting stuck.

And I may be trying to reason with myself on how to end the marriage, even though deep down I do not want to. I just feel a mountain of hurt, this being the 2nd A, and I know I am not handling it well.

I will check out your thread and the others you mentioned. Thank you so much for the different perspective.