To those saying I'm not working on myself; I am indeed. It is difficult when your wife won't articulate what it is she wants to see changed/different. I know nothing about her current mindset at the moment.
BD commented on this line but I have to also. So your W won't tell you what she wants changed...does that mean you don't know things you would like to improve about yourself? I'm pretty sure, like all of us, you could easily come up with a list of things you feel you could be better at. Work on those.
It's more important for you to become the person you want to be rather than the person your W wants you to be. Because if it isn't who you want to be it's fake and it won't last...
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
