I used to LIVE on this board from 2006 through my year in Iraq 07-08, and through my divorce in 2010! Four long years in hell!
I am now happily remarried to a great woman that I met upon my return from Iraq in 2008. Things are really good there, but my XW can't help but try everything she can to make my life miserable. Usually it's by inflicting financial pain such as going back to court to get her off my payroll after she moved in with her boss who she started seeing "for comfort" when I was in Iraq.
After she took the whole thing through a Rube Goldberg apparatus, it cost me 15K to stop alimony, even though cohabitation was specified in my final decree as a reason to stop alimony! Nothing is ever linear.
More than one suggestion has been made that she suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, where they can't let go of anything and must win at all cost, even if they are the one who wanted out, as she was (I hate you, don't leave me!)
She continues to use my son, now 15 as a hostage, and hits me with every extracurricular cost you can think of. I went to court on that one last year as well and LOST. She makes every weekend he's with me a tension convention.
Now I have to haggle over my military pension with her which was not settled in court.
She will do anything she can to rent space in my new marriage, and is quite successful in pi$$ing off my new wife. It makes for a very uncertain environment.
I'll be back at some point! Some of you oldies are still here!
