I agree with these guys. I think you need to 100% drop the rope and start concentrating on yourself.
I also agree that the push/pull dynamic is strong with you guys and I get the feeling you're still very available to her. The roller coaster ride never ends until we decide to end it. I think it's time to get off the ride and just start doing your thing while she figures out (on her own) what she wants to do.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
