If you return to this thread, I'd like to ask you some questions about MLC. Your post intrigued me very much!
I have been VERY confused on how to handle my H because he displays symptoms of an MLCer...but then, when I try DBing with that in mind, it sometimes backfires. So, then, I wonder if he isn't in a MLC....but is more a WAS. I know there's no clear line between the two, but just seems like you might have some useful info!!
