Living on a roller coaster

[CallaghanClown]

He's just left after putting the kids to bed. He spent the whole night asking my opinion on business issues and telling me that everything is his fault. I managed to avoid giving advice and just listen and validated. It was really hard and I slipped away to cry for a few seconds.

He also said he can't sleep. He wakes at 2 am and doesn't know why. I told him that this will all be hard on him too, I hope he sleeps well tonight and that herbal sleep remedies may be helpful.

I'm wondering if I need to let him know that the door has been left slightly open? I really don't think he knows at all. I'm doing really well at acting like I've moved on. I'm friendly, listen to everything he has to say, leave him to come to me when he's at my house, never initiate conversation. He's just treating me like his friend......it's killing me.