But the thing is, she is leaving me because of what she deems as years of mental abuse. Turns out I thought I didn't have ADHD but that explains all of my bad behavior.
Since she's already filed and is so emotionally wounded and shut down, I don't know if there is anything I can do to help.
We have nice discussions about me living in a nice condo. She's helping me find a place in Burbank and now is even expressing envy that I'll get to live in a nice large condo (bigger than our house).
Everyone in my family, even my parents say that she will not change her mind and I need to move on. But is this typically of what DBing situations are?
I've never hit her but I was emotionally abusive and manipulative and a whole bunch of crap. Now she is so disgusted by me. Contemptuous even.
