Hmmmm he never shared any complaints. What do you think his complaints might be now that you've read this board a bit and have had an opportunity to reflect?
Are you controlling, do you want to fix things for people? I ask that specifically because not telling your H about S's depression is something a controller/fixer would do. We (and yes,I include myself in that) decide what people are able to handle. It seems on the surface we're being nice the them but really it's all about us.
Your husband does sound depressed but there are many types of depression and it's his to deal with. He has to wrestle with his demons.
You get to wrestle with yours. What are they?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
