BOMB WAS DROPPED!! Now What??

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thanks Theoden:

I'm getting there. This is a very troubled women, my W. She has struggled her whole life with esteem, identity, searching for this unattainable "happiness" she claims is eluding her.

I think I'm coming to terms with the fact that she IS going to divorce me. I'm not going to push it, but when the time comes and she requests info or documents, I'll comply.

I'll meet with an attorney and learn my options.

At some point, she'll be faced with the real truth and suffer for her decisions. Any negative impact that our children experince as a result of her desires and actions will fall directly on her.

My position will always be, I don't want this and never did.