I disagree. I mean, i'm still offended on her behalf over forcing her to kiss you in front of the MC, and I find it annoying that you are still insisting you're right. And i dont know if its a straight line from that action to her current behavior as you suggest but whatever, i'm not inside her head...
But i disagree that theres no progress. Those positive interactions are good. No one should expect a was to jump in line and come back home after a couple of positive experiences. Rather, from what you often see here, expect some distancing after closeness, and expect a marathon, not a sprint.
She sounds confused. If you dont have her inout on what you can improve, do your own personal inventory on what you wish you were better at in your marriage, what you would do differently if you had it to do over. What do you think might make her think marriage to you might be different and better than before?
If youre completely stumped, try working on communication, most people are worse at it than they think.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.