It really doesnt matter if she sees it. Do what you want, don't strike poses for her.
I agree with you that the advice to date is not DB, and i think dating in order to try to develop confidence and self esteem is a bad idea. Date when you are divorced, have given yourself time to heal, and have done enough work on yourself to be sure of yourself on your own. Don't use women to prop yourself up. My 2 cents.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
