You stated your boundaries....kind of

but what are the specific consequences and are you going to enforce them? Does she know this?

I continue to see a push/pull dynamic here and it seems like she can call/text you and play nice and it [censored] you back in slightly.

Do you always answer her calls right away? If so, why?

She can't locate the # to the counselor? She can't look up some articles and do some research on her own?

I'm not saying she isn't going to buy in and work on the M but I've seen on here many times this dynamic where the WAS throws the LBS a few bread crumbs and we're off on the coaster again.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley