but what are the specific consequences and are you going to enforce them? Does she know this?
I continue to see a push/pull dynamic here and it seems like she can call/text you and play nice and it [censored] you back in slightly.
Do you always answer her calls right away? If so, why?
She can't locate the # to the counselor? She can't look up some articles and do some research on her own?
I'm not saying she isn't going to buy in and work on the M but I've seen on here many times this dynamic where the WAS throws the LBS a few bread crumbs and we're off on the coaster again.