I would especially appreciate a mans's point of view. Is it normal and ok to still have feelings for another person but also love and want to be with your wife?? Thanks!
Welcome to DB.
IMHO no it is not normal to be married and have feelings for another person.
That being said, when you read what goes on here on DB. Yup that is the normal script.
That is why learning to DB is about being counterintuitive(180)
Your spouse is not behaving normally right now and if you use normal logic then it will make not make sense.
So good job working with your DB counselor, what are they advising you?
